- What is your soccer background?
Answer: “I have played soccer all my life. From elementary school, to high school, then onto college at Wooster. I have coached at Walsh Jesuit High School, Norton High School, and NEO United Academy.”
- What were you expecting to get from coaching high schoolers?
Answer: “I have always been a person that put a great deal of emphasis on how people treat others and how you carry yourself. That being said, my goal while coaching high school women’s soccer is that these young women grow up to be respectful and prosperous women in the world. I want nothing more than to one day see my former players making great strides throughout the workforce that represents what I instilled in them through their learning years before entering the real world after college and so on.”
- Are you a person of high moral character?
Answer: “I’d like to think that I am, in fact, a person with a high moral character. My philosophy is that we are here for the love of the game and any award, championship, etc is just a bonus. You will never see me running up the score or any of my players being obnoxious about winning on the sidelines. I coach my teams in a way such that we are always respectful and know why we play the beautiful game.”
- How would you describe your coaching style?
Answer: “I would describe my coaching style as intense with a splash of fun. Coaching girls like I have for the past couple decades you learn a few things about how to get their attention. I run my practices with an iron fist, but I do it in a way that it is always a competition and the losers have a punishment. If you want to see real intensity in play on the field give the team an incentive to win.”
- What is one piece of advice you can give to future soccer coaches?
Answer: “The one piece I’d give them is to never forget the reason why you are coaching. You are there to play a pivotal role in how the kids grow up and carry themselves. You want them to be respectful and happy. Remember this and you will have done your job so that after a few years go by and you see them you can just look at them and be proud of how they have turned out. This is when you find out how much of a truly good coach you have been. Will be one of the biggest accomplishments you will ever have.”
Closing
Takeaway #1: The more experience you have with coaching sports, specifically soccer, you learn how to handle players and realize that not everything is about winning. It is about teaching kids to be respectful and coming together to accomplish a common goal.
Takeaway #2: Allow your team to be coached by someone who knows how to balance intensity and competition into practices and the like. This shows them that they will always be expected to give 100% but at the same time, they will be having fun with whatever incentive you choose,
Takeaway #3: Seeing the former players later in life and realizing how they have turned out and knowing you played a major role in this will be one of your greatest accomplishments as a coach.
Do you still think winning is everything?
Let’s remember why we play sports and use that to give our audience a show and allow them to see what doing it for the love of the game really means.

